Monday, May 25, 2015

Potty Training Woes

I've been dreading potty training my almost 3 year old for a long time. I hated the thought of cleaning up after his accidents.  I would go through phases of training/ no training and gave up easily. When I first had the drive to train my son I got the Munchkin training seat ($35) from Target. But it ended up being used as a step stool to get fun stuff off the counter. So that was a waste.

With my next attempt, I purchased the Sesame Street toilet seat ($15). He enjoyed that because he loves Elmo and liked looking at the characters and letters. It made going to the potty fun. But when he wasn't getting consistent, I gave up.

Recently, however, he started getting irritated and uncomfortable with his diaper and made several attempts to remove it. After one particularly nasty diaper change (yuck!) I decided to just take the plunge and let him roam diaper-less. He was happy; I was anxious!

I rolled up the rugs and we already had waterproof mattress pads. I started taking him to the bathroom every hour on the dot. Then I slowly increased the time to two hours and so on. After 3-4 days he got the hang of it but still had an occasional accident. Now after a week of consistency, he's doing much better but I'm still afraid to roll out the rugs again. I'll give him a  few more days (or weeks!)

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Pacifiers

I've discovered some things are controversial in the mommy world. There are strong supporters and staunch opponents to various topics. One such topic: Pacifiers! I exclusively bf both my children and I could tell when they nursed for nourishment and when they nursed for comfort. So I didn't believe I was depriving them of anything by giving them a pacifier when they would want to nurse for comfort.

There are so many times when a pacifier comes in handy such as when the baby is teething, not feeling well, you're busy and someone else is watching them and especially when you're out and their cries are turning heads.

Granted, pacifiers can become a habit and they may pass on germs to the baby. But I follow certain guidelines for pacifier use. Firstly, we wash and boil them regularly. Secondly, they're only given when the need arises like I mentioned above. 

The hospital gave us a baby care pack as a send off gift and it included a soothie type pacifier. I hated that as did my son! It was too large and cumbersome and covered the entire face. I then found Avent pacifiers with mouth vents, orthodontic shape, and a cover for the teat. Plus, they come in various sizes for different ages. My baby took to it easily and we were all happy.